How to Fit In at a New Church

Finding a place to fit in at a new church, especially if you are a shy type of person, is sometimes difficult. Knowing a few simple steps enables you to warm up to your new family and grow the strong personal bonds that make church membership meaningful. Here is how to find your niche in your new family.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

1. Pray. Ask God to lead you to the person or group that He has planed for you. Here is where you will need patience and a willing spirit, because God always asks us to grow beyond our comfort zone. Be sure He will ask you to step out in faith, and if you're obedient, His abundant blessings will follow.
2. Identify your gifts. Taking a gift assessment test like "Discovering Your Spiritual Gifts" by LeaderTreks can give you an overview of what God gave to you to give away to others to help you fit in. Remember, if you're not using your gifts the way God intended, someone else is missing out on His blessing.
3. Contact the church support staff. By talking to the support staff directly, you'll get a feel of where you might fit in best. Know that the support staff at most churches juggle many responsibilities so be mindful to not spend more than a few minutes of their time, but they may know a group where you would fit in.
4. Browse the church directory and find a member or two that lives close by and give them a call. Maybe you can get together for coffee and discuss where your gifts might fit in the church's ministry.
5. Volunteer. Nothing builds relationships quicker than working together. If you are able, try going on a group mission trip with your new church family.
6. Search out small groups. A small group Bible study is a great way to get to know others quickly. If there are no small groups in your church, volunteer your house as a meeting place to start one.

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