How to Host a Swingers' Party

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Swinging is a lifestyle that consists of two couples agreeing to have sex with each other's partners. It is a way for couples to enhance their sex life and explore openly while participating in a monogamous relationship. A swingers' party is when a group of swingers get together to have sex.

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Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

Step1

Ensure that you and your partner are sincerely interested in having a swingers' party and not just agreeing to please the other. Set ground rules and agree to communicate anything that makes you feel uncomfortable.

Step2

Join a swingers club to become acquainted with other couples who have a swinger lifestyle. Get to know several couples that you would be interested in inviting to the party. Talk with your partner and agree who to invite.

Step3

Keep your invited guests to a minimum, two to three couples is usually sufficient. Ensure that there is enough room in your house for everybody to get comfortable. If there isn't enough room, consider renting hotel rooms.

Step4

Set up different rooms for certain activities such as group sex or rooms for people who want privacy.

Step5

Provide plenty of refreshments. Keep the alcohol to a minimum; you don't want a houseful of rowdy drunk people. Put out condoms and lubricant for your guests.

Step6

Entertain your guests by playing adult videos and pleasant music. Be a good host by making sure all of your guests are introduced to one another.

Step7

Check in with your partner regularly to make sure he is enjoying the swinger's party. If he isn't having a good time, it's time to end the party. Remember, swinging is done to enhance your relationship not to destroy it.

Tips & Warnings

Practice safe sex.

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