How to use "The Secret" and make your life incredible.

By laleiderman

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I once read a phrase that changed my life: "What would you do if you knew you could not fail?" You can change the course of your life by changing the course of your thoughts! That is the premise behind "The Secret". And it is doable. What you need to understand is that your thoughts have an inordinate influence on your emotions and behaviors. You become what you say to yourself throughout the day, and it happens whether you want it or not, because with those thoughts you are attracting universal forces (some beyond our comprehension) which will conspire to grant you what you want. The fact is that your thoughts are the determining factor to your success or failure. Your thoughts determine where you energy will flow, and where that energy flows is the point where things start to happen. How powerful are thoughts? Your thoughts have the power to raise or lower your heart rate, your blood pressure. Your thoughts influence your response to life and relationships. Your thoughts can depress you or bring you out of a bad moment in a matter of seconds. Your thoughts are the way you communicate with your inner self, they are your internal dialogue, and the words you use to talk to yourself can make the difference between becoming a fearful and insecure person and an unstoppable optimist that will get his/her every desire. The choice is yours. This is called internal programming: so rewire that baby and start some attracting!

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

Things You’ll Need:

  • Your brain
  • Desire

Step1
Decide you are going to change the way you think.

Nothing is going to happen in your life because someone else told about it. Things only start to happen when you make them happen. Now, it all starts with a choice, then comes an action: So, take your index finger and flip that internal switch to the positive side. That's it!
Now, my advice to you is -glue that switch on that side, and never ever ever go back to negative.
Just don't go there. There is no need to.
Step2
Make a plan

How are you going to get somewhere if you have no idea where you are The going?
Imagine you just got a GPS as a gift, are you going to turn it on and just wait for directions? Guess what? It will remain on the input data screen, and nothing is going to happen! It will not tell you where to go until you tell it where you are headed: The same process happens in life.

The good news is: Life just gave you a brand new, easy to use GPS, it's called this article and The Secret". Everything that happens starts with a thought, that thought spark the energy that sets things in motion...and motion is what makes change.
All you have to do is fill in the blanks...

These are the blanks...
* where you are now _________
* where you want to be ____________

Create an amazing map of your life the way you want it...put it on paper, on a poster board, on your computer (get creative, it's your life).
Be as specific as you can, be visual: cut out photos of places you want to visit, people you wan to meet, the house you want to live in, the car you want to thoughts. The possibilities are endless.

You can have it all. Just think it.

But...
Step3
And this "but..." is what separates those that succeed from those who fail at this "wishful thinking thing".

Think it as if it were already a reality. You must have the most absolute and unquestioning faith that what you desire is real.
Close your eyes and feel all the desires in your "wish list" as if they are real, see them as done. If you have a problem visualizing the end result, then just look at the map you've made (refer back to it often, the more the better). It's like having a "life cheat sheet", where you get to peek at the end!
Step4
Really open yourself up to receiving.

Sometimes the universe gets you want you want, but you are so used to not getting it that you are unable to receive it. Well, make sure this pre- conceived-irrational-and-stupid-pre-programming is erased from your head forever.
Step5
Enjoy it all.

Smile because you are now the-living-breathing example of what can be achieved. You are a winner.

What you desire must be your reality, and it must feel as real and true now as it will be in your future.

Remember what I said in step 3, see it as done. Enjoy it as here. It is done.
Step6
Read this gratitude poem Gratitude and Giving back.

Nothing is complete without a sense of being grateful and one with the universe. The you must find a way to give back, to help, to contribute...
The world works on the backbone of those who have conquered and help others conquer. The premise behind The Secret is that anything can be yours, the premise behind life is that if everything is yours, how are you going to give back and make this a better place for everyone else.

And it becomes a wonderful circle of never-ending giving and receiving

Tips & Warnings

  • Believe
  • Practice makes perfect (imagine your hardest task being to ban negativity fro m your thoughts and focus on enjoying all the wonderful things that are happening to you, new job, sudden inspiration for writing articles like this one (and getting paid to do it), being happy, getting married ... think away!
  • bookmark and re-read this article every time you start to forget the basics.
  • Watch the Secret (it really takes all this to the next level)
  • WARNING: If you don't believe you can do anything, then you have already failed!

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on 6/19/2008 I love "The Secret." Thank you for these great tips!

jnau said

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on 10/31/2007 great advice. It takes strength to believe, but in the end, there's no point to focusing on the negative. Life is too short and it only makes things worse. Confidence=faith.

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