How to Start a Conversation

Starting a conversation with a complete stranger can be intimidating and stressful, especially if you feel like you have nothing in common. By swallowing your fears and insecurities, you can learn to easily chat with new people.

Instructions

1. Stay up to date on what's happening in the world so that you have plenty of things to talk about. Read the local paper and watch the news so you can knowledgeably participate in discussions about current events.

2. Prepare yourself before you attend events where you will meet new people. Rehearse what you will say in front of a mirror.

3. Ask a lot of questions. People like to talk about themselves and their lives. However, make sure you keep the questions simple--don't ask anything too personal or invasive.

4. Listen to others. People can sense when you're not really interested in what they have to say. They don't want to waste time talking to someone who doesn't listen. You must show a sincere interest in others for them to express a sincere interest in you.

5. Take note of what is going on around you. Use your surroundings to come up with a good conversation starter.

6. Smile and look others in the eye. Everyone enjoys being around positive, confident people. The more confident you act, the more confident you will become. Relax and stay calm.

7. Keep practicing. Force yourself to strike up conversations with strangers in different situations. The more you practice, the better you will become at starting conversations.

Resources

• Visit convostarters.com for resources on starting conversations
• Makingconversation.org has even more info