How to Support a Handicapped Family Member

The type of support you give to a mentally disabled family member depends on your financial situation and how closely you live. Support is needed in all areas when dealing with a mentally handicapped person and even the smallest gesture does not go unnoticed by the person providing the primary care for the individual.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

1. Provide financial support to your disabled family member or the person providing for them. Parents of handicapped persons are often blindsided by medical bills or the cost of providing around the clock care. Financial support is sometimes the best way to help.

2. Attend school or organizational functions. If your family member is in the Special Olympics, take the time to go and support their efforts.

3. Visit your disabled family member at their home. They may not notice your efforts, depending on their severity, but the parents or the person providing their care appreciates it more than you know.

4. Include your disabled family member in conversations, if possible. They are not second class citizens, so make sure their opinion is accounted for and they feel like part of the family.

5. Celebrate their accomplishments. They may never graduate from college, but when they learn to read or ride a bike, it should be a huge deal.

Tips & Warnings

• People don't always want to accept financial help, so you may want to consider anonymously giving if this is the case. Being recognized for your good deeds is less important than doing good deeds.
• If you live near your disabled family member, volunteer with their school functions or even at their Special Olympic events.
• If you don't live close by, send cards to show your support and volunteer with a Special Olympics team in your area.
• Don't be discouraged. A mentally disabled person may or may not appreciate your support. Keep supporting your family member, no matter what.

Resources

• Information about Special Olympics and volunteering in your area