How to Keep a Child Content and Quiet in Public

Simple public outings, from a family dinner to a trip to the grocery store, can pose a challenge when there's a small child in tow. Their natural curiosity drives them to wander about, and their short attention spans make it tough to sit still for more than a few moments. With a little extra planning, it is easy to keep a little one quiet and content while out in public.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

1. Put together a small activity bag to bring along on public outings. Include easy snacks such as dry cereal, a notepad with crayons and small, quiet toys.
2. Look for kid-friendly atmospheres when choosing a restaurant. Most of these places offer special child menus with crayons. Encourage your child to choose their own meal, and let them order when the server arrives. Letting the child be involved gives them independence and encourages them to behave "like a big kid."
3. Play "waiting games" while standing in lines or sitting in waiting areas. Play "I Spy" or encourage your child to hunt for specific colors and shapes.
4. Make a game out of people watching. Ask your child to count the number of people wearing blue, in a baseball cap, etc.
5. Use your child's favorite subjects to strike up an engaging conversation. Who is their favorite cartoon character? What is their absolute favorite toy and why? What do they want to be when they grow up? They'll most likely be thrilled to share these thoughts and feelings with you.

Tips & Warnings

• Remember to praise a child after each successful public outing. If you tell them how very good they behaved and that you're proud of them, it increases the likelihood of successful ventures in the future.
• Try not to be influenced by any stares, comments, etc. you might get from strangers. Most people understand the balancing act of keeping a small child occupied in public. Regardless, if you're interacting with your child and doing your best to engage her attention, that's the best you can do.