How to Win Back an Ex
Breakups are certainly painful, and sometimes it's almost impossible to give up on an ex. If you have evaluated your breakup and find that you want to win your ex back, a few simple maneuvers can help you reach your goal.
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Instructions
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Be aloof. Being aloof doesn't mean be cold, just detached. By appearing upbeat and unphased by a breakup you maximize the chances that your ex will take notice and admire your cool head in spite of what might otherwise be an awkward situation.
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Look good. Whether you're trying to win back an ex boyfriend or girlfriend, you should look your best. Taking pride in your appearance helps boost confidence and allows you to present yourself to the best of your ability.
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Take it slow. Begin making contact a little bit at a time. Give your ex a call to see how he's doing or position yourself to run into him at the market. A relaxed, low-stress encounter could be just the right move to rekindle your ex's interest and win him back.
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Be sincere. Once you've made contact and re-established communication, be sincere in your conversation. Express genuine interest in your ex's life since the breakup and focus on her well-being.
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Increase contact. Ask your ex if he would consider having lunch with you to catch up. If all goes well, maintain your distance for a few days, but follow up with another warm invitation. Repeated friendly meetings increase trust and your chances of winning your ex back.
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Prepare yourself to talk about the breakup. If your ex is interested in getting back together, you will inevitably need to discuss the breakup and the chances of avoiding another one in the future. Try not to place blame when you talk about the past, and move forward with a new start in mind to maintain your ex's trust.
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tailgater
Jan 31, 2009
When my GF broke up with me I thought it was the end of the world. I was dedicated to getting her back, so I followed these steps while "researching" on how to become more attractive. I started dating other women, but by that time I'd realized how much better off I was without my ex, and I moved on. Although my initial plan was to get back with her, I learned more of what kind of person I wanted to be with, and that was definitely not my ex. -
tailgater
Jan 31, 2009
When my GF broke up with me I thought it was the end of the world. I was dedicated to getting her back, so I followed these steps while "researching" on how to become more attractive. I started dating other women, but by that time I'd realized how much better off I was without my ex, and I moved on. Although my initial plan was to get back with her, I learned more of what kind of person I wanted to be with, and that was definitely not my ex.
