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How to Hold a Sex Party

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One way to spice up your suburban landscape is to hold a sex party. It sounds dirty, but really, it can be lots of fun. Now if you're thinking these are just focused for swingers you're wrong. There's no reason people in relationships can't come and enjoy as well. Here are some tips on how to throw a sex party

Difficulty: Moderate
Instructions
  1. Step 1

    Invite a group of friends. Obviously you mustn't invite anyone underage. The optimal invite is a person who is open-minded, free spirited and doesn't find themselves clamming up in awkward situations. Make a list of the people you know and invite them. Clearly state your intentions and the description of the party.

  2. Step 2

    Have plenty of alcohol. Make sure everyone is practicing safe drinking by providing transportation or by having a designated driver. Alcohol loosens people up and allows them to lower their inhibitions. You can have a signature drink and name it something naughty and sexy.

  3. Step 3

    Play games with your guests. These games should be in the same vein as the ones you would play at a bachelor or bachelorette party. Pin the penis on the guy, or suck and blow are just some ideas. Make the games fun, interactive and tailor them to the "sex tolerance" of your group.

  4. Step 4

    Sell toys at your party. Passion parties have become all the rage lately. At these parties, people sell sensual and sexual toys to use in the bedroom. It's literally the same thing as a Tupperware party from the 1980s. Check out passionparties.com for more information on how to get sex toys at your party.

  5. Step 5

    Provide comfortable accommodations for your guests. It is completely up to you about how "far" you want your guests to go. Be sure to provide areas where people can get intimate, maybe giving each other a massage. The mood of your group will dictate the level of play.

  6. Step 6

    Give everyone a gift bag as they leave. Fill the gift bag with samples of massage oil, soaps and other inexpensive items you may have had at your party. It's also a way to get people to leave, as they'll be eager to use them.

Tips & Warnings
  • Make there are no children anywhere near this type of party. You can be arrested if any children are present.

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Simoana said

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on 9/29/2008 There's alot of threads regarding swinger etiquette and parties here: http://forums.tabutoys.com/community/index.php?board=32.0

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on 8/27/2008 I am hosting a sex party at my house, couples only. please RSVP.

Trisha Cragun
2037 E Marilyn Ave
Mesa AZ 85204
480 242 6471
email: laughing_little_ones@q.com

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