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Step 1
Communicate with your partner that you are not interested in just intercourse, but foreplay as well. Most women and men are overjoyed to hear this news.
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Step 2
Masturbate or have a partner stimulate you with their hand. Try different ways of stroking and use varying amounts of pressure. Use lubrication as necessary.
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Step 3
Experiment with stroking or having your partner stroke your perineum, the area between your testicles and anus. Fondle this often ignored and sensitive area with many nerve endings.
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Step 4
Have your partner perform oral sex. Repeat varying amounts of pressure and suction. Focus on the tip of the penis moving lower to the base. Include the testicles and other body parts such as the nipples, which are an erogenous zone.
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Step 5
Engage in intercourse. Rear entry, male on top and reverse cowgirl with the woman backwards and on top are popular positions.









