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How to Achieve a Male Orgasm

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Contrary to what movies and TV constantly display, not all men achieve orgasm simply by thinking about sex. The male orgasm while not as mysterious as the female orgasm, certainly hinges on many physiological, emotional and psychological factors. Gladly, half the fun is figuring out what works to help you achieve a male orgasm. Read on to learn how to achieve a male orgasm.

Difficulty: Moderate
Instructions
  1. Step 1

    Communicate with your partner that you are not interested in just intercourse, but foreplay as well. Most women and men are overjoyed to hear this news.

  2. Step 2

    Masturbate or have a partner stimulate you with their hand. Try different ways of stroking and use varying amounts of pressure. Use lubrication as necessary.

  3. Step 3

    Experiment with stroking or having your partner stroke your perineum, the area between your testicles and anus. Fondle this often ignored and sensitive area with many nerve endings.

  4. Step 4

    Have your partner perform oral sex. Repeat varying amounts of pressure and suction. Focus on the tip of the penis moving lower to the base. Include the testicles and other body parts such as the nipples, which are an erogenous zone.

  5. Step 5

    Engage in intercourse. Rear entry, male on top and reverse cowgirl with the woman backwards and on top are popular positions.

Tips & Warnings
  • If you feel like you may be suffering from erectile dysfunction see your general practitioner or urologist.
  • You don't have to tell your partner that you have difficulty with orgasm.
  • Do not feel the need to orgasm every time you engage in sexual activity. Your energy level and state of mind might be preventing you from orgasm.
  • Always practice safe sex.

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