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Step 1
Find a willing partner. Cyber sex is a great way to explore fantasies with a loved one through email or chat. On the other hand, if you are looking for a completely anonymous encounter, a number of chat rooms cater to the needs of adults looking for cyber sex.
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Step 2
Relax. Make sure you are in a well-controlled area where you are unlikely to be interrupted. If you plan to have cyber sex with a stranger, it might be helpful to chat a bit before you begin. Let sexual innuendo enter into the conversation naturally or ask each other sexually suggestive questions to heighten the mood.
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Step 3
Allow your imagination to run wild. The idea behind cyber sex is to have fun and explore your fantasies. Allow yourself to slip into a fantasy at your partner's urging or take control and get things started yourself. Set the scene by imagining a secluded beach, a stranded elevator or some other scenario that gets your blood pumping.
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Step 4
Play with language. If you are new to cyber sex, you might have some reservations about how to express your desires through the written word. If so, read some erotic literature to get comfortable expressing yourself and build up some ideas for dirty chat.
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Step 5
Take your time. Cyber sex, like any sexual play, is often intensified by anticipation. Because you are anonymous, or at least secluded, you can work yourself up at your own speed, but be sure to pay attention to your partner's words so you don't leave him behind.
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Step 6
Enjoy your body. The whole point of cyber sex is to simulate the act of sex through words and masturbation. Let the words be a guide to your fantasy as you pleasure yourself physically.
Comments
kulule said
on 4/16/2009 where are you girls!