How to Date Younger Men
Hollywood probably started the trend of women dating men eight or more years younger. This trend has been on the upswing for several decades. One third of single women between 40 and 60 are now doing dating younger men. Despite setbacks like menopause, old prejudices in society and negative stereotyping by fiends who assume too much, there's no indication the trend won't continue growing. Read on to learn how to date younger men.
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Read "Cougar: A Guide for Older Women Dating Younger Men," by Valerie Gibson. If you can't find in your local bookstore you can always order it from Amazon. Also known as the official cougar handbook, it tips women on how to date younger men by providing insider information.
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Get in the habit of smiling when you come across younger men who attract you. Be ready for the unexpected. You could see him in the company cafeteria, the supermarket or your fitness club. The important thing is to be subtle. Men, no matter what their age, always understand approval.
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Talk to younger men. Friendly small talk is always a great ice breaker. Drift the topic to the love-hate relationship you have with the Internet or email and, who knows, you might get rewarded with his email.
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Join a popular website that specializes in matching older women with younger men like GoCougar.
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Dress younger, act younger and feel younger. In short, take care of yourself. If you are 50 but look 30 because birthing children, your stressful job or divorce did not leave their scars, that's great. Otherwise, consider eating organic food, taking oil baths, enrolling in a yoga course or taking Pilates.
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Tips & Warnings
Do not slip into a mother role, no matter how tempting that might be at times.
Do not be intrusive. Respect his boundaries. It is perfectly normal for him to not want to share certain things. Do not interpret this as meaning that he is cheating on you.
Do not wear leopard spandex to look younger and sexy. Wear what is fashionable.
