How to Help a Battered Wife
Domestic violence is an assault on the physical and psychological makeup of a person. Many battered wives remain in denial or, worse yet, think the problem is their fault. Showing your willingness to help by being proactive will lay a good foundation for finding the right solution.
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Instructions
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Comfort the Battered Wife
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Be a reliable friend. Tell the battered wife about your concerns. Let her know you are there to help her, but that she needs to resolve the issue.
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Persuade your friend to seek help because lives are at stake. Children living in the house increase the importance of finding a solution. Intervention is needed through a crisis center, police or ultimately a divorce lawyer.
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Know the domestic family crisis centers for your area. See The National Domestic Violence Hotline website for finding local services. Phone the organization at (800) 799-SAFE. Give your friend this number and keep it for yourself as well.
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Open up your house in case of emergency. Your friend needs to know she can come to you for temporary shelter.
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Put aside extra funds to help in a pinch. It is best for the battered wife to hide emergency cash in the event she needs to leave the house.
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Stay in contact with your friend. Phone her or go to her house if you are unable to get a response. Any concerns should be told to the police if a period of time elapses without contact.
Confront the Abuser
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Talk with the abuser about the effects he is having on his wife. Be gentle and avoid heated confrontations.
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Tell the abuser your feelings about the physical and emotional damage. For a friend or family member try letting the person know you care and outside help is needed to restore the marriage.
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Explain the legal consequences any illegal behavior.
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Tips & Warnings
Never remain silent.
Avoid being judgmental and harsh.
