How to Use a Dinner Napkin

Gracious table manners require that you know how to use a dinner napkin. Though quite innocent looking, a napkin comes with a set of simple rules. If you're familiar with the etiquette of how to use a dinner napkin, you'll not only avoid dinner table gaffes but you'll be quietly noticed for your lovely manners.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Instructions

1. Place your dinner napkin in your lap right after your host has done so. Pick up your napkin by a corner and let it fall open.

2. Gently dab your mouth with the napkin before taking a drink. This prevents crumbs from falling into your glass.

3. Place your napkin to the left of your plate if you leave the table and intend to return. Push your chair in.

4. Cover your mouth with the napkin if you burp. Quietly say "excuse me" but to no one in particular.

5. Pick up the napkin at the center at the end of the meal. Place it loosely on the table near your plate.

Tips & Warnings

• Don't tuck your napkin into your shirt collar. The host (or the restaurant) provides a bib if your menu selection requires it. Don't flap or snap the napkin in the air to unfold it.
• Don't set your napkin on your plate when you leave the table at the end of the meal. Don't use the napkin to wipe your entire face or mop your brow.
• Don't dip a corner of the napkin into your water glass for a quick clean-up of something dribbled on your tie. Never use your napkin as a handkerchief.

Resources

• Etiquette and good manners

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[tunakoyo]

on 1/22/2008 This is a great how to article.