Things You'll Need:
- Lubrication
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Step 1
Find an appropriate place where you can be alone for an extended period of time. This would usually be at home when no one else is around. Lock the door and make sure you won't be interrupted.
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Step 2
Use lubrication. This will make it much easier to pleasure yourself. Petroleum jelly and skin lotion work well.
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Step 3
Turn on an adult video or look at a pornographic magazine if you'd like. A lot of men use this to create a fantasy while they masturbate. If you've got a vivid imagination, just picture the things that turn you on.
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Step 4
Try different methods of pleasuring yourself. Check out a website for ideas. If you're used to trying something one way, try it another way. The change might bring you a different level of pleasure.
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Step 5
Move your hips while you masturbate. This simulates the thrusting motion of sex. It can also enhance your fantasy because you're physically acting it out in a way.
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Step 6
Try out a few toys if you're comfortable with the idea. These can offer you a variety of stimulation choices in addition to your hand.
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Step 1
Let yourself relax. Lock yourself in a room and turn off the phone. Push all thoughts out of your mind except for ones that turn you on.
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Step 2
Fantasize. Use your imagination or an adult video. Pornography is for women, too.
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Step 3
Feel your body. Some women are able to orgasm from nipple stimulation alone. Find what areas on your body cause the strongest responses.
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Step 4
Touch around your labia and ****oris. Stroke yourself using different speeds and motions. If you enjoy penetration, try putting a finger or two inside of your vagina when you masturbate.
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Step 5
Stimulate lightly through an orgasm. This will help extend the feelings of pleasure. Stop if it doesn't feel good.
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Step 6
Use a vibrator on yourself if you're comfortable with one. This will give you extreme stimulation and take away some of the manual labor. Some vibrators can be used both inside and outside of the vagina.
Comments
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omgnowino said
on 10/7/2009 is it bad to do it before you get your period for the first time?
adviceedivda said
on 9/13/2009 To irol
Proberly not. He might just want some time to **** himself and get ready for you? haha. I dunno - the best thing you should do is ask him?!?!?!
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young54321 said
on 9/6/2009 Is it bad to masturbate before u get ur first period?? And can u tell me like exactly how to masturbate step by stp starting from taking off clothes please??