How to Decide to Adopt a Special Needs Child

Many children waiting for adoption are said to have "special needs." This is a very broad category that encompasses a variety of children with a range of very simple to more severe special needs. Learning more about adopting a special-needs child can help you decide if this is the right option for your family.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging

1. Understand the definition of special needs. In the adoption world, "special needs" is a broad label that describes a child who is harder to place. A child might be considered special needs because he is older, is of a minority race or has minor, correctable medical problems.
2. Talk to your spouse, friends or family about different special needs. Decide which special needs you feel you can handle and which ones might be too much for you. Although difficult, it's important to be honest in your assessment of which children might be right for your family.
3. Research the special needs of the children you're considering adopting. Talk to other families who have kids with the same special needs to get tips and ideas.
4. Remember that a special-needs child is like any other child. She will have good days and bad. She will bring struggles and joys in the same way that any other child would.
5. Welcome your special-needs child with open arms. Seek out resources within your community to help your child thrive and grow and reach his fullest potential.

Tips & Warnings

• Talk to other families who have a child with the special need you are considering. Interacting with these families and their children can help you decide if this special need would be a good fit for you.