How to Defend a Decision to Use Artificial Insemination

Deciding to use artificial insemination to have a baby is a very personal decision. Unfortunately, our privacy is not always on the top of other people's list of priorities. Many people, both well-intentioned and just plain nosy, have opinions that they insist on foisting uninvited upon us. You can choose to avoid any conflicts that may arise or you can develop a plan to defend your decision and stick to it.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging

1. Write down your position on artificial insemination. Prepare for a barrage of questions. You don't want to be caught off guard.
2. Use a friend as a sounding board and a devil's advocate. Debate the merits of your choice with the friend, requesting your debater to take opposite sides and prep you with possible questions you may receive.
3. Join a support group of others who have chosen artificial insemination. There you can speak freely about the challenges of upholding your decision and maintaining your cool with those who want to quarrel with your decision. Find a group through givf.com.
4. Talk with your religious counselor. Many religions oppose artificial fertilization. Prepare to be on the wrong side, according to your fellow church members, if your religion opposes artificial insemination and you do it anyway.
5. Refuse to argue. You do not have to win a debate if you choose not to participate. Prepare short, curt responses to those who would insist on attacking your choice. Saying "It is none of your business," or "We did this for very personal reasons, which shall remain so," is an option.