How to Date a Single Dad
You have met a great guy. He is smart, charming, good looking, and--a single dad. This does not mean that dating isn't an option, but it does mean that dating may involve a little bit more thought and planning than in other scenarios. Whether he is a divorced dad or a never-been-married dad, you will need to remember that any serious relationship you enter into will involve his kid(s) also.
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Let him talk. Allowing him to chat about his kids and his life will give you a lot of information about the scenario you are walking into. A single dad who talks about his kids and is involved in their life is a good sign.
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Ask questions as they come to you. You want to know what he is like as a dad, what his kids are like, how he relates to his ex and what the custody arrangements are.
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Realize that you will meet the kids when he is ready and when you are ready. Nothing good can come of meeting the kids before you and he have agreed that the two of you are getting serious.
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Show courtesy to the mom, if she is involved. This woman is not your competition, but she is a constant and equal part in the children's lives. Even if the divorced mom and dad do not get along, it is not your place to be involved.
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Include the children in activities when it is his turn to have them and do not make plans that exclude the kid(s) on these nights or weekends.
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Make romantic plans for you and your single dad when the kids are with their mom, after all you are dating him and you should have fun together.
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Tips & Warnings
Come up with creative and inexpensive activities for the two of you. His finances may be tighter as a divorced dad who has custody, pays child support and/or pays alimony.
A single dad will want one-on-one time with his kids, so plan on having a few of your own activities scheduled.
Do not be taken advantage of. It is not your job to become the new step-mom overnight.
Discuss whether or not this single dad wants more children in the future, especially if you have your heart set on it.
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