How to Be More Attractive to Men

Everyone wants to be attractive, but competing with ridiculous beauty standards is tiring. It is physically impossible to be Barbie or Pamela Anderson, even for Pamela Anderson. With all the plastic surgery, hair extensions and bleach jobs floating around, what you see is not what you get by a long shot. End your quest to be the next best thing by following these steps to more attractive to men-simply.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

1. Be yourself. There is nothing sadder than watching someone pretend to be someone they are not. You'll never feel truly accepted by anyone if who they accept isn't the real you. Men can detect a "phony" easily, and it is not attractive. Your personality is your number one tool to attract men-so use it.

2. Be confident. Insecurity is never cute. Men love women who are comfortable in their own skin. Know that you are fabulous without being conceited, and it will show. You'll be more attractive to men and people in general.

3. Create an image. Don't get all high maintenance, but taking pride in your appearance is a must. Men are visual creatures, and attraction starts with what they see. Work out to keep yourself in shape. Dress in flattering clothes that express your individual style. Wear make-up that complements your skin tone, and always smell good.

4. Play up your assets. Focus on what's great about your body, instead of your perceived flaws. If you've got great lips, gloss them up. Wear jeans that highlight your lovely derriere. Show great legs in a short skirt. Every woman has something that is attractive to men.

5. Use body language. Smile. Cross your legs. Make good eye contact. Be open to make a connection. A little flirting makes you more attractive to men.

Tips & Warnings

• You don't have to be attractive to every man, just the ones you're interested in dating.
• Know the difference between sexy and trashy.

[hojooogonzy]

on 1/11/2010 I'm a guy so I would say for a girl to dress hot, come over and talk to us, flirt a little with the usuals. TAKE A JOKE, if he says something stupid. For example,one time a girl asked me what I thought of her new flower nailpaint and I said, 'They look like footballs'. She got pissed off at me so I decided to leave this person who was void of comedy. Anyway make it clear that your into him and from there you'll be okay. A lot of the time guys want something to brag to their friends so give them something, up to the person what that is. Have something interesting to say, talk about literature, good music, politics, etc etc and NEVER be pretentious.

[altruisticavenu]

on 11/12/2009 I agree with most of this, especially the sexy but not trashy bit. But i do think you have undersold the importance of personality. Appearance is a factor but not the most important one. There is a really great article on this at http://hubpages.com/hub/What-do-men-like-about-women