How to Be a Matchmaker
Some people have a difficult time finding that special someone. Let's face it; some people even have trouble finding a date. That is where your matchmaking skills will come in handy. It isn't hard to match up two people, and it can even be fun.
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Instructions
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Find a friend who is need of some help. You can't be a matchmaker without someone to first make a match for. You may already have someone in mind, or you may have to observe and ask around to find someone you can help with your matchmaking.
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Discover what people are looking for. The key to good matchmaking is in the name. You are looking for a match, someone who shares the same interests and aspirations as the person you are setting up. Ask them some questions; find out a little bit more about what they are looking for in a potential mate.
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Look for a match. Finding a match for your friend can be as simple as taking a step back and observing your current acquaintances. Your friend's match may already be in your circle of friends. When you have exhausted those possibilities, look to personal ads, online dating profiles and even people you meet at parties.
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Set up a meeting. Arrange a meeting for your two matches. This should take place in a public setting or even at your own home. Some people are more comfortable in a group setting. If this is the case, host a dinner party or a small get together and invite them both.
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Try again. Not all matches are going to work out. Don't be discouraged in your matchmaking by one bad match. Keep trying, and you may end up finding your friend just what they have been looking for.
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Tips & Warnings
Believe it or not, some people get paid to be professional matchmakers. If your matchmaking works out for you, it could become a career.
When finding matches outside your group of personal acquaintances, make sure to check them out a bit first. Not everyone is forthcoming about their reasons for placing ads or online profiles.
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Comments
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Julie McElroy
Oct 30, 2008
Great advice! Can you be my matchmaker? :)
