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Step 1
Prove that the standard of living to which you've become accustomed. For example, if you routinely get a weekly massage, or you have a weekly maid service and have for years, it is reasonable to ask that your spouse continue paying for the expenses.
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Step 2
Demonstrate your contribution, if not monetary, as a homemaker or parent. Your role in the marriage has value. Note any contributions you made to the career or education of your spouse.
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Step 3
Provide information about earning capacity, other income, such as interest, dividends, and capital gains of your spouse. Bank records and income tax records are the best proof of income earned.
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Step 4
Negotiate with your partner first to determine the amount of support and length of alimony payments. Depending on many factors, alimony might be paid for a year or two, or "for life" unless the recipient remarries or cohabitates with a new partner.
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Step 5
Involve the judge to review the situation if you and your partner cannot come to terms. A judge will consider any factor presented by either side when determining the amount of alimony and length of time of alimony payments.
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Step 6
Consider taking a life and disability insurance policy on your ex-spouse. As an "interested party" you are allowed to do this. In the event the payor is disabled or dies, the policy would cover the terms of the maintenance income you've been awarded.
