Things You'll Need:
- Stain removers
- Scarf or extra tie
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Step 1
Sit back from the table. Your goal is to lean forward from the hips to position your head slightly in front of your chest. Your fork or spoon should still be over the table when you place it in your mouth. Don't sit so close to the table that you hunch over your meal.
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Step 2
Take your time. Carefully place a small amount of food on your fork or spoon and take care that it's not in danger of falling off or spilling out.
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Step 3
Fill your spoon by moving it away from you. This way, if you have an accident, the food will spill onto the table and not into your lap.
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Step 4
Place your napkin under your collar. It's acceptable to wear your napkin as a bib if your only other choice is to allow food to spill onto your clothes AND you're having your meal with friends in an informal setting. For business lunches, take care not to order food that will tend to splatter on your clothes.
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Step 5
Use your napkin to protect yourself from spills. If a spilled liquid is threatening to drip off the table into your lap, it is acceptable to use your napkin to prevent this. After the spill is cleaned up by the waiter or host, ask for a new napkin.
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Step 6
Clean up immediately. If you drop food on your clothes, immediately excuse yourself and go to the restroom to clean it off before a stain sets. Tide Stain Sticks and Carbona wipes both work very well.
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Step 7
Concentrate on the act of eating while at the table. Avoid activities that could distract you such as reading while you eat. If your attention is not on your meal, you're more likely to drop food on your clothes. Similarly, don't watch television or get too distracted by the conversation. (This is why etiquette advises that contentious subjects be avoided during dinner.)
