How to Find a Match While Speed Dating

Speed dating is a great way to meet your potential match. However, with only seven to 10 minutes per date, there is little time to size up the possibilities. Every minute counts. Take the following steps to make the most of your speed dating experience.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

1. Look your best. You know the saying about first impressions. Make yours a good one. Wear flattering clothes that express your personality. Make sure that you are well groomed and that your breath is fresh. When you look good, you feel good.
2. Trust your gut. Natural chemistry is important. If you find yourself drawn to the person, then there's a solid foundation to build on. You should feel comfortable with your potential match.
3. Open up. The speed dating time table doesn't leave room for shyness. If you want to find a match, be willing to let go and enjoy the experience. Open your heart and your mind to the possibilities.
4. Ask the right questions. Only you know what you really want. Ask for the information you need to make good choices. Speed daters are prepared to cut to the chase. They are just as eager to find a match as you.
5. Be yourself. It is okay to be a little nervous, but let your true personality shine through. Confidence is always attractive.

Tips & Warnings

• Make good eye contact with your dates.
• Smile often.
• Listen as much as you speak.
• Don't dress overtly sexy or eccentric.
• Only ask questions that you are willing to answer yourself.
• Flirting is great, but remember that you only have a short time to show substance.