How to Write a Best Man Toast

Congratulations! You've been chosen as the best man, which means you'll play a special part in the wedding of someone very close to you. With this honor comes the responsibility of giving the best man's toast. This usually takes place after the first dance at the reception. Here are a few tips for writing an unforgettable toast to the newlyweds.

Instructions

1. Jot down notes about the bride and groom. Include special reflections about your relationship with them and sentimental or humorous memories you have of your friend or relative.

2. Start by introducing yourself and explaining your relationship to the bride and groom.

3. Thank those responsible for hosting the wedding. Traditionally, this is the role of the bride's parents; however, don't assume. If the newlyweds have paid for the wedding themselves, simply state how happy you are to be there for this special occasion.

4. Recount a humorous story about the couple or newlywed you know best. Forgo telling indecent stories, as they may be offensive to the wedding guests.

5. Share your thoughts on the positive aspects of marriage. If you are married, offer some advice to the newlyweds.

6. Close your toast by offering well wishes or a blessing. Then raise your glass in a salute and offer your congratulations to the new couple.

Tips & Warnings

• Write your speech down on note cards. If you get nervous or forget what you were going to say, simply read from cards or glance at them prior to standing.

• Refer to both the bride and groom equally, as they have both chosen you to be the best man.

• If you are not comfortable speaking in public and you want your speech to be funny, but are terrified the joke will fall flat, websites such as thebestmanspeech.com offer examples, templates and wedding-themed one-liners.

• Avoid humiliating stories. A wedding is not a place to embarrass anyone, especially the newlyweds.