How to Behave at a Wedding

An invitation to a wedding is an honor and a guest's behavior should reflect that honor. Despite how fun or a casual the wedding is, attending a wedding requires respectful behavior. Here are tips.

Difficulty: Easy

Instructions

1. Dress appropriately. Even at an informal or beach wedding, cut-off shorts and flip-flops are too casual. If the wedding is black tie, the invitation will state this. Honor the couple by dressing to fit the occasion.

2. Respect religious regulations. Regardless of your own beliefs, it is rude to disregard religious requirements for wedding guests. If you're not sure what the rules are, ask ahead of time so you can behave appropriately.

3. Control liquor consumption. An open bar is not an excuse to act foolishly. Decide beforehand how much to drink so you won't ruin the event by becoming too intoxicated. If need be, have a friend with you to cut you off from the bar when you've reached your limit.

4. Behave, Casanova. The pretty bridesmaids are not up for grabs. Let go of any temptation to take the cute tipsy cousin of the bride home with you.

5. Filter your conversation. Your captive audience at the reception is not there to hear other guests' political, religious or social opinions. Also, this is not a networking opportunity. Keep the conversation light, possibly funny and focused on the event at hand.

6. Have fun but remember to behave in a mature manner. Dance to the music. Enjoy the cake. Take this opportunity to catch up with family or friends. Make some new friends, too.

7. Thank the hosts. Thank the couple or the host of the wedding for the invitation to the special event.

[llparker]

on 5/27/2009 wonderful advice on wedding behavior