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Step 1
Keep your appearance up at all times. Being physically attractive is key to being a player. This means male or female your hair, nails, health and overall grooming should always be the best.
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Step 2
Be likable. If you want to attract those of the opposite sex then you need to have a pleasant personality. People are drawn to those who are fun to be around, easy to talk to too and all around approachable.
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Step 3
Stay honest regardless of the scenario. While it may be tempting to lie, you will always be better off telling the truth and being up front with those you're involved with. In the end this will mean you will burn minimal bridges and continue to attract those that interest you as a player.
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Step 4
Make yourself accessible to the people you are seeing but not exclusively available. You want to keep their interest but you don't want them believing the relationship is going to get serious.
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Step 5
Stack your dates. Because you're a player, there's only so much free time in a week for dating and spending time with someone. Use your time smartly by scheduling more than one date in an evening.
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Step 6
Cater to those you're dating. You want them to accept the fact that they are not the only ones in your life but that spending time with you is worth it. Make them feel like when you're together they are the only one in your world.
