How to Perform a Bar Mitzvah Speech

Your bar mitzvah ceremony ushers you into Jewish manhood. Typically, you will be required to perform a speech reflecting on your thoughts and feelings about the event. With a little research and hard work, you can write and perform a speech that is a public marker of your growing maturity.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• Translation of your Torah portion

Research and Write Your Speech

1. Start by selecting a theme for your bar mitzvah speech. You may be required to speak about the Torah or Haftarah portion you are reading.

2. Spend some time thinking about what it means to you to become a bar mitzvah. Remember, this day is about more than the party and gifts; it's your religious coming-of-age.

3. Research the parasha (Torah portion) you are reading in order to give a good Dvar Torah (Torah thought). Read through the text several times and choose one aspect on which to focus.

4. Consider adding a poem or reading that relates to your theme, a humorous Jewish parable or even an amusing anecdote from your own experiences. Keep these segments of the speech short, lighthearted and entertaining.

5. Mention an aspect of a tzedakah (charity) you have been involved in or contributed to. This is a good way to show your investment in your community.

6. Thank your parents and rabbi for all their help in preparing for your bar mitzvah. Offer thanks to your guests for sharing your special day.

7. Speak about the religious and personal significance you have found in the process of studying and preparing for your bar mitzvah. Share how you foresee yourself as an adult member of the Jewish community.

Perform Your Speech With Confidence and Style

8. Rehearse your speech many times in the weeks and days before your bar mitzvah, creating a delivery that is polished. Ask your friends and family members to act as your audience while you practice.

9. Fight nervousness by taking several deep, even breaths before you begin your speech. Stand up straight and speak slowly, clearly and with feeling.

Tips & Warnings

• While you have the platform for performing your bar mitzvah speech, you do not want to speak at such length that you bore the audience. Limit your speech to a 5- to 10-minute time frame, and you should be just fine.
• Your speech is an opportunity to show your maturity and insight to your friends and family. Make sure they can hear and understand every word.