Things You'll Need:
- Clothing for the bar mitzvah service and party
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Step 1
Find out what kind of synagogue the service is being held in, since different denominations of Judaism have different rules for dressing.
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Step 2
Maintain a certain level of decorum in dress when attending a bar mitzvah service, no matter what the denomination of the synagogue. Boys and men should wear coats and ties; girls and women should wear skirts, dresses or suits.
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Step 3
Make sure that women's and girls' clothing for the service is not too revealing, tight or low-cut. Shoulders should generally be covered, and necklines and hemlines should be on the conservative side.
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Step 4
Know that it is traditional for men to wear a kippah (skullcap) in the sanctuary of a synagogue. While it is not required for non-Jews to wear them in most synagogues, it is a sign of respect to do so.
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Step 5
Note that in the Orthodox branch of Judaism, all men and married women are expected to cover their heads. They will be handed either a kippah or lace head covering before entering the sanctuary.
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Step 6
Leave your tallit (prayer shawl) at home if you are not a practicing Jew.
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Step 1
Wear a dark, well-fitting suit for your bar mitzvah. Remember that you will be the center of attention for much of the day, so you will want to look your best.
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Step 2
Shop for suits at department stores, specialty stores or suit outlets. Take some time to try on a number of different suits.
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Step 3
Start shopping early for the suit, allowing time for any necessary alterations.
