How to Pick Bar Mitzvah Invitations

A bar mitzvah is an important event in a Jewish boy's life, and you want to make sure that all your friends and family members know about the special day. Pick bar mitzvah invitations that will inform and impress your guests.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• Sample invitations for viewing

Find and Browse Available Invitations

1. Visit your local stationery store to look through books of sample bar mitzvah invitations. Most stores have books from several different printers. Typically, you can place your order and pick up your invitations at the same location.

2. Search online printing and stationery companies for invitations. Find invitation companies at Barmitzvahfindit.com (see Who Can Help below).

3. Inquire about whether or not your synagogue gift shop carries sample invitation books. Many synagogues offer this as a service to congregants. The gift shop can help you to place the order.

Select the Right Invitation Design

4. Take the time to look at a wide variety of invitations. This will help you decide on the style, theme, colors, presentation and paper type for your own invitations.

5. Pick a style that complements the bar mitzvah boy. Popular styles are masculine, simple and natural, name-centered, glitzy, colorful, contemporary and artistic.

6. Think about matching the invitations with the colors you are using for the bar mitzvah party decorations.

7. Consider including a biblical verse from the weekly Torah portion that the bar mitzvah boy will be reading. Think about having the verse printed in both Hebrew and English.

Include Appropriate Information

8. Make sure the name of the bar mitvah boy is prominently featured in the invitation. It's his big day, and he deserves acknowledgment for all his hard work and preparation.

9. Include all the important details of the event: dates, times and addresses of both the religious service and the party; catering details; names of the hosts; RSVP dates and information.

10. Enclose a map and directions to the synagogue and the party.

Tips & Warnings

• Order thank-you cards at the same time that you order invitations, ensuring unity of style and design.
• Some companies accept rush orders. If you require this service, expect to pay an additional fee.
• Proofread the invitations several times before placing your order to avoid last-minute changes and undetected errors.
• Avoid placing invitation orders at the last minute. If you are purchasing printed invitations, allow at least 4 to 6 weeks for processing.