How to Improve Your Relationship with a Teen

The idea that teenagers are impossible to live with, talk to and relate to has become so commonplace that we adults start to believe and act as if it's so. The myth of the difficult teenage years is perpetuated over and over until everyone assumes that teenagers are difficult all the time. If you are stuck in that belief here are some steps to take to get your relationship with a teen moving in a positive direction.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

Things You’ll Need:

• A sense of humor
• The desire to try a new approach
• An open heart

1. Say to your teenager, "I want to have a good relationship with you." They don't know this unless your tell them.
2. Say to your teenager, "I'm on your side."
3. Ask your teenager, "What is one thing you would like me to do that would improve our relationship?"
4. Ask your teenager, "Will you be patient with me, I'm learning too?
5. Make a sincere effort to do what they ask.
6. Tell your teenager, "Thank you for working on our relationship."

Tips & Warnings

• Parenting a teen is an art and you'll undoubtedly discover that you still have much to learn.