Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Step1
Start an open dialogue about the realities of rape with the teen. Do not try to scare them, but be honest about the possibility of a rape attack and the basics of personal safety. Tell them to be aware of surroundings, to not go anywhere with strangers and to avoid being alone at night, even if it is simply walking through a parking lot and avoid potentially dangerous situations.
Step2
Discuss the topic of date rape and how to avoid dangerous situations such as being in secluded areas alone with dates and drug use. Encourage the teen to be open about experiences and ask questions.
Step3
Educate the teen about safe places to try to reach at night if they are concerned they are being followed. Any well-lit public locations with phones and preferably with some type of security will do, including gas stations, 24-hour grocery and discount stores and bars. (Even if your child is underage, a teen is safer going to a bouncer or bartender for help than being chased by a potential rapist).
Step4
Program the teen’s mobile phone with emergency numbers on speed dial. Remember, 911 services are not always available on mobile phones so a direct police line may be a better alternative than 911.
Step5
Enroll the teen in a self-defense seminar that is specifically geared towards rape prevention. Call the local police department for a recommendation. Equip the teen with any weapons the seminar teaches them to use, such as a kubotan keychain.
Step6
Encourage the teen to be pro-active about rape prevention and their right to defend themselves in case of an attack. Speak with them often about the topic and know where they go and who will be with them.