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How to Give a Lap Dance

By eHow Relationships & Family Editor
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A lap dance is a type of erotic dance in which the man is seated and the dancer is either in immediate contact with him, or very close. This dance is seen in strip clubs, but it is also a marvelous treat for your partner in the privacy of your home. It can be very arousing for men, but you have the control and the power!

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging
Instructions
  1. Step 1

    Explain the rules at the start, which are, “Hands Off.” Any touching by him means that the game is over.

  2. Step 2

    Think sexy and feel sexy. Make him sit down, stand about 6 feet in front of him and start swaying your hips slowly to some music. Dance or slink towards him and when you are close, place one foot on the floor between his feet and the other on the arm of the chair.

  3. Step 3

    Undulate and circle your hips, keeping your back arched. Slowly bend your knees and go down as far as you can, then up again, continually undulating your hips.

  4. Step 4

    Turn slowly. Keep circling your hips, and use sexy arm movements. As far as possible, try to keep looking at your man as you turn. Eye contact is all important! Seduce him with your eyes.

  5. Step 5

    Push out your chest and bottom. Bend over so that your bottom is facing your man. Slide your hand up your leg.

  6. Step 6

    Run your hands slowly over your butt, stomach and breasts. Rub yourself over the top of your clothing.

  7. Step 7

    Dance into the space between his legs. Put your hands on his knees. Push your breasts toward his face and let him smell your scent. Remove your clothes, while caressing yourself.

Tips & Warnings
  • Smile all the time and sigh or moan erotically as much as you can.
  • Tease him until he gives in!

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