How to Understand Imaginary Friends

Having an imaginary friend is fairly common for kids, especially when they are three to four years old. Kids have such a great imagination that it may be hard to understand their perspective sometimes. Supporting your kids and not ridiculing them will help them get through this phase. Make the phase interesting and fun for both. Bonding is very likely to occur if you are involved with their imagination.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

Things You’ll Need:

• Child
• Imagination
• Pediatrician

1. Look for signs that your child might have an imaginary friend. Signs may include pretending to be talking to someone or setting out an extra chair and plate when eating.
2. Understand your child. Imagination and creativity should be encouraged as long as no harm is being caused. Children will trust you if you trust them, so play along.
3. Talk to your child about his new friend and how pretending and creativity is fun. Give him space to imagine and do not be too involved. Imaginary friends help kids deal with their own problems.
4. Involve your child with other kids. It is important that the child is playing with real kids and not just the imaginary friend.
5. Remember the way you were when you were a child. Don't be surprised if your child blames an imaginary friend to try to get out of trouble.

Tips & Warnings

• If you think the imaginary friend might be the sign of a problem, talk to your pediatrician.