How to Attract Men

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Attracting men is more than a one step process. Although stereotypes exist to the contrary, men are attracted to more than just physical beauty. Learning all aspects of what males are looking for isn’t difficult. However, it can be comprehensive and can sometimes even be a long term developmental process.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

Things You’ll Need:

  • Confidence

Step1
Advance your studies. Males are attracted to educated females. Being intelligent and knowledgeable can open yourself to a wide variety of men that you otherwise wouldn’t have the self-belief to attract.
Step2
Become more confident in your skin. No matter your perceived shortcomings, being confident in yourself makes you more attractive no matter who you are. Be happy with yourself and others will take note.
Step3
Learn to cook. The old saying is true; the quickest way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. If you can advance your culinary skills, that’s a very attractive trait.
Step4
Follow the latest fashion trends. While you don’t have to have a million dollar wardrobe to attract men, you should understand the latest trends in fashion.
Step5
Smile when you are in public. Men are attracted to friendly females. If you are smiling, that shows that you are indeed content and would most likely welcome a conversation.
Step6
Concentrate on becoming self-reliant. If you can support yourself financially and emotionally, those are very attractive traits. It will also help you down the line in having more freedom in life. You never want to depend on another person for your well-being.

Tips & Warnings

  • Don’t change who you really are to attract men. If a man is attracted to someone that isn’t the real you, it won’t last the test of time.

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varhar9

varhar9 said

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on 9/4/2008 looking for ways to remove yellow stains on my linoleum HELP

viva

viva said

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on 9/2/2008 Useful information. Learn how to Captivate a Man, Make Him Fall in Love with You and Give You the World!
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triciagoss

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on 8/30/2008 Good advice... as far as the fashion part goes, I think what it all boils down to is looking like you take care of yourself and take pride in your appearance. I don't believe the writer is saying you have to look like the tiny girls in the magazines. Simply appear fresh and confident and not dated. Great piece!

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on 8/29/2008 fasion trend is letting your butt and boobs hang out. Tts better to cover up and allow some things for the imaigination. Or you could just look like a lemming and always go with the trend or be and individual and not let your boobs do the attracting.

BlakeXRain

BlakeXRain said

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on 8/26/2008 I still think the whole fasion trend thing would repel me. If your clothes are from after the year 1820 Then I'll be ok. It's the person, not the clothes they wear, that makes up my mind.

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