How to Be Polite to a Mean Boss

If your boss is a jerk, then being polite is the last thing on your mind. But showing your boss kindness and respect even though they haven't earned it is a sign of maturity on your part. Follow these guidelines to treat your mean boss with respect.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

1. Speak appropriately to your boss. Just because they may address you inappropriately doesn't give you the right to be rude in return. Use Mr. or Mrs. before his or her name, and avoid foul language or slang.
2. Greet your boss with a kind word. Ask about something they enjoy. Try to thank them for something such as a project or promotion they gave you, assuming they gave you something nice.
3. Offer to pick up something for him on your way to the file room or break room. If your boss seems busy, you should wait until a more appropriate time for this step.
4. Be mindful of your body language. If you seem uncomfortable or anxious around your supervisor, they will notice and will most likely point it out.
5. Listen to what your boss has to say. You may have heard the same story about how your coworker is better than you many times before, but if you listen closely you might gain new insight and knowledge.
6. Show kindness. If you see your boss in need, offer to help out. This could be as simple as getting a cup of coffee or staying late to meet a deadline.

Tips & Warnings

• The basic ideas is to put the supervisor's needs before your own. This is the essence of being polite.
• If you have a disagreement about something, try to give them the benefit of the doubt. Confront them with kindness and respect.
• If you feel your boss is verbally abusive, evaluate your options. It might be time to report the situation to top management, or look for a new job. Try not to put yourself in a position where you are receiving verbal abuse from your supervisor.