How to Have a Threesome

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A threesome is the term used to describe the sexual act which involves three people. One person can be the focus of attention, or all three can be engaging in sexual activity with each other. However, all three people are together in the same location during the experience. Some people think that when two men are with one woman that the men must somehow be bisexual, but that is not normally the case.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

Time and patience

Step 1

Think about having a threesome. Men apparently have longings for this activity much more than women do. It is top of the list of male sexual fantasies. This could be explained by evolution, which has ordained that men need to spread their genes as far and wide as possible in order to further the species.
Step 2

Convince your wife or girlfriend to have a threesome. This can be hard, but if you start by getting a woman to fantasize about having a threesome, you are nearly there!
Step 3

Find another woman who is willing to join you in bed. This is not simple. Many women may consider a threesome, but ultimately abandon the idea to keep faith with their partner. Persistence is the name of the game.
Step 4

Create a atmosphere which all would enjoy. Soft lights and soft music will help.
Step 5

Understand that this may be more titillating in fantasy than in reality.
Step 6

Ask the women if they will explore each other, while you watch. Then wait until they ask you to join them. Don't be selfish; let the women have fun with each other as well as having fun with you!
Step 7

Try a threesome with two men and one woman. The two men jointly participate in the threesome, both focusing on the same one woman.

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drnavratil said

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on 12/13/2009 I think that an article about what to do in a threesome situation would be more appropriate. There are thousands of articles with tips on how to get two women into bed but hardly any on what to do once your finally there. I dont mean that it is any more difficult to handle more than one woman. all i am saying is that there is a completly different etiquitte involved with a threesome and i feel as though that should be explored more. If you feel confident enough to satisfy more than one person then getting them into bed is the easy part.