How to Have Phone Sex

Phone sex is a sexually explicit conversation between two or more persons on the phone. Usually at least one of the contributors masturbates. They can also engage in sexual fantasy. Many couples who, for job, school, military, or other reasons, can't be intimate in person. Phone sex can be a substitute for the real thing. As most phone use is usually nonsexual, people feel shy at first. This is how you can start to partake.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

Things You’ll Need:

• Time and patience

1. Overcome your self-consciousness and learn how to engage in mutual sexual fantasy without feeling silly.
2. Joke about it first with your partner. You could say "Hey, remember that we had this idea......." If your partner agrees, you are on your way.
3. Plan ahead. Make a date when both of you will be uninterrupted. This will allow you to think ahead of the time as to what you might do or say.
4. Create the right environment and set the mood. Turn off the lights, have soft music playing. Imagine that the other one is there with you. You could even get naked and start to masturbate prior to the phone call, to get things going!
5. Say things like, "What are you wearing?" "Are you wearing anything?" Later on in the conversation, you could say, "When we meet again I'm going to......." Conversations may take many forms, such as sexual anecdotes and confessions, or you can just be listening to each other masturbate.
6. Obtain a phone sex worker if you want to partake in this and haven't got a partner who is willing to cooperate. There are many types of sex worker, which are easily found on the Internet. They have the experience to respond to a broad spectrum of customer needs. They may simulate masturbation and engage in role playing sexual fetishes that the customer requests, though some of the phone companies running these sites may refuse extreme demands. Phone sex patrons are overwhelmingly male, and for many of these men it is important for their confessor to be a woman, especially when their confessions involve taboo subjects.

Tips & Warnings

• Phone sex that you buy from specialist businesses can be very expensive.
• Phone conversations, especially on cell phones, are not always private.