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Step 1
Start young because abstinence is best achieved through a lifestyle quite different than the current world view.
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Step 2
Join a church. Having a strong Christian influence in your life will greatly aid your quest for abstinence.
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Step 3
Avoid sexual thoughts, images, conversations and situations as much as possible. There is no point in teasing yourself with something you should not experience until you are married.
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Step 4
Spend time filling your head with encouraging thoughts and simply non-sexual thoughts on a regular basis.
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Step 5
Date people who you know feel the same way about abstinence. Dating someone who does not feel the same way will end badly.
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Step 6
Avoid alcohol and drugs because these substances affect your ability to think straight and may lead to a moment of weakness.
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Step 7
Confide in a friend who is like minded and encourage one another to stay strong.










