How to Know If Your Kid's a Shoplifter

Shoplifting is the theft of merchandise from a retail store, and it is common practice among kids. Surveys report that 1 in every 4 young people admits to having shoplifted. Many parents do not know their child is involved in shoplifting until he or she is apprehended. Here are signs to watch for that may indicate your kid is a shoplifter.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

Know the Causes of Shoplifting in Kids

1. Understand that shoplifting can be a side effect of depression or low self-esteem.
2. Realize that many kids shoplift because they are bored or want to experience an element of excitement.
3. Know that many young people shoplift as an outlet for problems they are experiencing at school or home. Be aware of your child's emotional health and realize that shoplifting might be a misdirected act of aggression.
4. Be aware that some psychologists believe shoplifting is a sign of an addictive personality, which has been identified as a genetic trait. Working with a mental health professional can help you identify and deal with character traits that might lead your child to shoplift.

Recognize the Signs of Shoplifting

5. Notice if your child has clothing or jewelry he or she did not buy and did not receive as a gift. Ask where these items came from and follow up on your child's answers.
6. Pay attention if your child frequently claims to borrow items from friends like video games, new clothing, electronics or other small technological devices.
7. Look for unexplained price tags and packaging in your kid's room or trashcan.
8. Be aware of your child's friends and notice if he or she has friends who show signs of shoplifting. The primary reason kids say they shoplift is peer pressure.

Talk to Your Child About Shoplifting

9. Talk to your child about his or her decisions at an early age to be sure her or she understands the moral and legal consequences of shoplifting.
10. Consider looking into an educational resource about shoplifting for kids. The National Association for Shoplifting Prevention sponsors a program for children called the Honest to Goodness Project (see Resources below).

Tips & Warnings

• Know that your child has the right to have a juvenile record sealed if he or she is convicted of shoplifting as a minor.
• Parents may be held liable for financial losses incurred when their child shoplifts.