How to Prevent Kids from Shoplifting

Shoplifting, the theft of merchandise from retail stores, knows no age limit. According to surveys about shoplifting, about 1 in 4 young people admit they have shoplifted. It is important for parents to understand why young people shoplift as well as what to do if they think their child might be shoplifting.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

Get Involved to Understand the Reasons Kids Shoplift

1. Recognize that peer pressure can be a contributing factor in a kid's decision to shoplift. Trying to fit in with others is the primary reason cited by young people when asked why they have shoplifted.
2. Keep your kids from shoplifting by being aware of issues that may lead to a call for attention. Realize that some kids shoplift for attention because of problems at home or at school.
3. Understand that boredom or a desire for risk or excitement can lead kids to shoplift.
4. Keep an eye on your children's moods. Recognize that shoplifting can be a result of depression, low self-esteem or not feeling accepted.

Keep Your Kids from Shoplifting

5. Explain the consequences of shoplifting to your children. Financial restitution and jail time are both realistic possibilities; kids should know this.
6. Let kids know that shoplifting is both wrong and illegal. Don't assume these points are obvious. As in other issues young people deal with, education is key.
7. Get professional help if you perceive shoplifting as a serious problem for your child. Some people consider shoplifting an addictive behavior, and it may be something your child cannot easily control.
8. Have a law enforcement officer speak to your children about the consequences of shoplifting. Many police departments have established programs you can take advantage of.
9. Be aware of the warning signs of shoplifting. Notice if your child has unexplained gifts or new clothes. Also take note of new friends, a dip in your child's academic performance at school or an increase in disciplinary problems.
10. Take your cues from the National Association for Shoplifting Prevention. Review their Honest to Goodness Project, which aims to educate young people about shoplifting (see Resources below).

Tips & Warnings

• Realize that children who are convicted of shoplifting may spend time in a juvenile detention center.