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Step 1
Recognize that peer pressure can be a contributing factor in a kid's decision to shoplift. Trying to fit in with others is the primary reason cited by young people when asked why they have shoplifted.
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Step 2
Keep your kids from shoplifting by being aware of issues that may lead to a call for attention. Realize that some kids shoplift for attention because of problems at home or at school.
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Step 3
Understand that boredom or a desire for risk or excitement can lead kids to shoplift.
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Step 4
Keep an eye on your children's moods. Recognize that shoplifting can be a result of depression, low self-esteem or not feeling accepted.
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Step 1
Explain the consequences of shoplifting to your children. Financial restitution and jail time are both realistic possibilities; kids should know this.
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Step 2
Let kids know that shoplifting is both wrong and illegal. Don't assume these points are obvious. As in other issues young people deal with, education is key.
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Step 3
Get professional help if you perceive shoplifting as a serious problem for your child. Some people consider shoplifting an addictive behavior, and it may be something your child cannot easily control.
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Step 4
Have a law enforcement officer speak to your children about the consequences of shoplifting. Many police departments have established programs you can take advantage of.
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Step 5
Be aware of the warning signs of shoplifting. Notice if your child has unexplained gifts or new clothes. Also take note of new friends, a dip in your child's academic performance at school or an increase in disciplinary problems.
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Step 6
Take your cues from the National Association for Shoplifting Prevention. Review their Honest to Goodness Project, which aims to educate young people about shoplifting (see Resources below).
