How to Help With a Spouse’s Impotence

Are you unhappy with your sexual life? Is the main reason for dissatisfaction your husband’s impotence? Well, make up your mind to cope with the situation bravely. Be sympathetic with your husband and find out the reasons for impotency. Here is how to help with the husband’s impotence:

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging

1. Talk to your husband in a loving manner. Just speak with him as a friend without being judgmental.
2. Confirm whether the real problem is physical or psychological. For doing so, consult your family doctor.
3. Note that diseases such as diabetes, cardio-vascular problems, multiple sclerosis and so on create mental blocks that affect the sexual activities. Take the advice of a psychiatrist if necessary.
4. Meet a sex expert who performs surgeries on genital organs. Ask your husband to undergo sperm counts tests in case the surgeon recommends.
5. Tell your husband that you love him whatever be the sperm count test result. Take the result of the test in a positive manner even when it confirms impotency.
6. Find out from the surgeon whether the problem can be solved with special treatment.
7. Make special efforts to show your husband that you still care for him. Prepare food items or wear dresses that he likes.
8. Ensure that he does not have a guilty feeling. See that your husband does not feel isolated. Talk to him in the normal way. This would facilitate better understanding with each other.
9. Adopt a free and new approach to sex occasionally. Allow him to talk frankly about his hidden sexual desires. Discuss with him your expectations in a soft way.

Tips & Warnings

• Give him only those drugs that the doctor prescribes.
• Consult a qualified dietician and make necessary changes in food items to increase the sexual libido.
• Never make him feel inferior with your words or gestures. It would de-motivate him.