Difficulty: Moderately Challenging
Step1
Talk to your husband in a loving manner. Just speak with him as a friend without being judgmental.
Step2
Confirm whether the real problem is physical or psychological. For doing so, consult your family doctor.
Step3
Note that diseases such as diabetes, cardio-vascular problems, multiple sclerosis and so on create mental blocks that affect the sexual activities. Take the advice of a psychiatrist if necessary.
Step4
Meet a sex expert who performs surgeries on genital organs. Ask your husband to undergo sperm counts tests in case the surgeon recommends.
Step5
Tell your husband that you love him whatever be the sperm count test result. Take the result of the test in a positive manner even when it confirms impotency.
Step6
Find out from the surgeon whether the problem can be solved with special treatment.
Step7
Make special efforts to show your husband that you still care for him. Prepare food items or wear dresses that he likes.
Step8
Ensure that he does not have a guilty feeling. See that your husband does not feel isolated. Talk to him in the normal way. This would facilitate better understanding with each other.
Step9
Adopt a free and new approach to sex occasionally. Allow him to talk frankly about his hidden sexual desires. Discuss with him your expectations in a soft way.