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Step 1
It's all about first impressions, and you know what peoples first impression of you will be? Your appearance. From hair to shoes. You could be the positively hideous and still make a good first impression through appearance. Dress approriately and in form-fitting clothes, thought don't look like a ****.
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Step 2
Your walk. Don't drag your feet and make sure whatever shoes you're wearing, you CAN WALK IN. Nothing is more demotivating to your self-esteem than falling over because of shoes you look great in, but only if you don't move. At all.
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Step 3
Your smile. Don't do a hideous smile that shows all of your teeth or an ear-to-ear grin. Lips together, or at most slightly apart.
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Step 4
Don't spend ages talking about yourself. People like talking about themselves, but make sure it's not only him/her you're talking about or you could appear to be uninteresting. Avoid religion, politics, money and sports (Unless you are actually interested in it and know enough not to make a fool out of yourself).
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Step 5
Move. Talk to different people for toughly 3-10 minutes depending on how interesting they are, but 10 minutes MAX! If you've covered talking to a range of people and they're still the most interesting person you've talked to, go back.
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Step 6
Don't use the strategy of 'If I remain here, someone will talk to me eventually'. Realise: No one cares about you. They only care about themselves, so if you wamt to be noticeable, BE NOTICEABLE. Go, look people in the eye and make sure you stand your ground!
