How to Discipline a Group of Children

Sometimes it is hard for parents to remember that discipline is more about teaching than punishment. It is easy to get frustrated with one unruly child, much less a group of them. Keeping your cool and following these steps can make an experience with a group of children a delight instead of a disaster.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

1. Set clear boundaries for the children and let them know ahead of time what is expected of them.

2. Stay calm, firm and consistent when disciplining and setting boundaries for the children.

3. Remember that each child has different temperaments and developmental styles. The way they act and respond to you and the other children will be affected by these natural traits.

4. Correct the children's poor behavior without criticizing or belittling them as a person.

5. Praise good behavior by providing positive reinforcement. Most children want to receive praise. If they know you will praise their good behavior, then they are more likely to follow the boundaries set for them.

6. Offer rewards or incentives for good behavior. One example is to offer a treat at the end of the outing for those who earn it by following the rules.

Tips & Warnings

• If your own children are part of the group, be sure to treat them the same as the other children. You should avoid being too lenient or demanding on your own child.
• Remember that the purpose of discipline is not to punish. The purpose is to teach the children to think for themselves, make good decisions, recognize right from wrong, respect other people and exhibit appropriate behavior.
• Do not use bribes. Bribes are giving a child a treat in advance and hoping they will show good behavior.