How to Care for Someone With Bladder Cancer

Bladder cancer, an abnormal growth on the bladder's lining and sometimes in the surrounding tissue, can be devastating to the patient. He may be experiencing pain, depression, anxiety and other symptoms. It's important to know how to care for someone suffering from this illness.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging

1. Be aware that bladder cancer is most common in older people and in smokers. Quitting smoking can prevent the cancer from reappearing. You may want to broach the subject of smoking cessation with the person for whom you are caring if he is a smoker.
2. Know that, even if a noninvasive tumor is eradicated or an invasive tumor is removed, the patient is still at risk to develop other tumors within the bladder in the future. You may need to remind the patient of recurring appointments and help him or her with transportation to and from these appointments.
3. Help the patient to make better food choices. According to the American Cancer Society, optimal nutrition is essential to maximizing energy and preserving muscle.
4. Regulate pain medications. All medications should be taken at standard intervals so that they don't wear off before another dose is administered, leaving the patient in pain.
5. Join a support group. Spending time with others who are in a caregiver situation can give you insight and some much needed relief from what can be a stressful situation. You can also help your loved one join a bladder cancer patient support group.
6. Be flexible when it comes to meal times. Though a healthy diet is necessary, the patient's appetite may fluctuate greatly, requiring smaller portions.
7. Keep records of any fluctuations in the cancer patient's condition. These records may help your oncologist track progress or new developments.

Tips & Warnings

• Speak to the attending physician yourself and take a pad of paper and pen to note any instructions she may have regarding diet, medication and other concerns.
• Expect the cancer sufferer to be depressed and emotionally exhausted. Look for local support groups to help with the psychological effects of bladder cancer through the Bladder Cancer Advocacy Network (see "Resources" below).
• Explain to the patient that he has the right to participate fully in treatment decisions, as well as the right to deny any proposed treatment.