How to Choose Quotations when you Write a Eulogy

Writing and delivering a eulogy for a loved one may be one of the most difficult things you ever do. To make your eulogy extra special, you can try adding some inspirational quotations to your eulogy. Choosing quotations when you write a eulogy is not difficult if you start with some solid ideas.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

Things You’ll Need:

• Song lyrics
• Religious scripture
• Personal recollections about the deceased
• Quotes from friends and family

1. Consider quotations from friends and family members or other people who have come into contact with the deceased. Always make sure that these comments are positive.
2. Choose religious quotations if the deceased ascribed to a certain faith. You can ask a religious leader to help you if you yourself are not religious.
3. Include song lyrics from the deceased's favorite song or band.
4. Use the Internet to search for quotations for your eulogy that fit a certain theme outlined in the rest of your eulogy.
5. Use quotations from the deceased. You can get these from past memories of your own or of friends and family members.
6. Make a list of all of the quotations you could use.
7. Write your eulogy with your list of possible quotations in front of you, adding them as you see fit.

Tips & Warnings

• Ask for help if you need it. Friends and family can provide you with ideas for finding quotations, or telling you about things the deceased said.
• Avoid ad-libbing—delivering the eulogy will be an emotional moment so having a written eulogy will help you get through it.
• Always be respectful of everyone attending the funeral. Don't include quotations from the deceased that may offend anyone present.