How to Deliver a Memorial Eulogy

Losing a loved one can be hard, but there are things you can do to help say goodbye to the deceased. If you have recently lost a loved one, consider speaking their memorial service by delivering a eulogy, in which you remember the person and get a chance to voice your feelings. Delivering a eulogy is never easy, but it can help make you feel better.

Things You'll Need

• Personal recollections of the deceased
• A written speech
• Appropriate dress
• Microphone (optional)

Instructions

1. Write a memorable eulogy. This can include humor, personal stories, memories, and goodbyes to the deceased.

2. Dress for the memorial service according to the wishes of the family. Traditionally black is worn, but some families wish mourners to wear bright colors to help lighten the spirit of the day.

3. Deliver the memorial eulogy from a spot in which all attendants can see you.

4. Speak loudly and clearly, and consider using a microphone so that everyone can hear you well.

5. Avoid speaking for more than five to ten minutes. There are probably many people who would like to speak at the memorial service.

6. Crying during your delivery is fine. Bring a tissue with you if you suspect this may happen and excuse yourself if you cannot stop crying.

7. Always show the deceased in a positive light.

Tips & Warnings

• Ask for help when you need it. Writing a eulogy for someone you love is hard.

• Avoid improving or ad-libbing. Having a written eulogy is usually a better choice.

• Always be respectful of everyone in attendance.