How to Choose the Right Words when Writing a Eulogy

Eulogies are difficult to write because they are delivered at the memorial service or funeral for a friend that has passed away. If you are asked to write a eulogy for a loved one, choosing the right words is never easy, but by considering the choices, you should be able to come up with something heartfelt.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• Personal recollections
• Suggestions from friends and family members

1. Remember that every eulogy is different. Don't look for example in books or online. Simply write from the heart.

2. Include personal memories of the deceased in your eulogy. If it is not something that everyone in the audience will remember, make sure to fully tell the story, not just allude to it.

3. Don't be afraid to use humor. If you do, it will lighten the mood and help to remember the deceased in a positive light.

4. Never make negative remarks about the deceased, even if you are joking.

5. Ask friends and family members of the deceased for suggestions.

6. Make an outline of the points you wish to cover before writing the complete eulogy.

Tips & Warnings

• Writing a eulogy is never easy, so ask for help when you need it.
• Always be respectful of all of the mourners.