How to Grieve for the Loss of a Child
The death of a child is one of the most difficult things a parent will ever have to deal with. In fact, the death of a child is something that most people will think about every day for the rest of their lives. Grieving in a healthy way is important to help cope with this terrible loss.
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Things You'll Need
- Grief counselor
- A memorial fund
- Friends and family members
- Picture of your child or an item that belonged to them
Instructions
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Find closure. One of the easiest things to do to find closure is simply say goodbye to your child at a funeral. It's OK to talk to a tombstone or picture.
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Cry. It's fine to be sad when you think about your child, but don't let it disrupt your daily life too much.
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Consider speaking at your child's funeral.
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Talk to a grief counselor. A grief counselor can help to answer your questions and allow you to learn healthy ways to remember your child.
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Talk to other family members about the death. Chances are that you're not the only person grieving, so spend some time talking with others about the child you've lost.
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Remember the happy times. Your child wouldn't want you to be sad, and remembering the times when you've had fun together can help you grieve in a healthy way.
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Keep an item that reminds you of your child. This can be anything from a picture to one of his or her personal items.
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Set up a memorial fund in honor of your child so their friends can make donations to a charity they liked or supported.
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Tips & Warnings
Remember to always be respectful of the others grieving for your child, even if you do not get along with them.
Don't forget your other children, if you have them. Although the loss of one child is devastating, you should focus on loving your other children as well. Remember that they've lost someone they love too, and staying close will help you recover from the loss.
If you are having thoughts of suicide or otherwise feel you can't deal with the grief, talk to your doctor or counselor immediately.
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Comments
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betterbody
Jan 31, 2009
After reading the 1st step, I didn't have to go further. This is not good info for anyone. -
betterbody
Jan 31, 2009
After reading the 1st step, I didn't have to go further. This is not good info for anyone.
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kthorse
Dec 05, 2008
Try to find closure is not possible with the death of your child ask any mother who has lost their child. Closure will never happen at least not completly. Also your life is disrupted permanitly so crying is not something you can hold back or should hold back. God gave us tears to heal so they should be allowed to flow freely. Life will never be the same ever again so we should be aloud to grieve for how ever long it takes even if it disrupts our life because it is the only way to move on.
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kthorse
Dec 05, 2008
Try to find closure is not possible with the death of your child ask any mother who has lost their child. Closure will never happen at least not completly. Also your life is disrupted permanitly so crying is not something you can hold back or should hold back. God gave us tears to heal so they should be allowed to flow freely. Life will never be the same ever again so we should be aloud to grieve for how ever long it takes even if it disrupts our life because it is the only way to move on.
