How to Be Spontaneous in the Bedroom

Initiating the unexpected is a great way to keep the passion alive in a long-term relationship. You could surprise your partner with a back rub or something more daring. Read on to learn how to be spontaneous in the bedroom.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

1. Find a book of sexual positions. Find one that has detailed illustrations and descriptions.

2. Set the mood with some cuddling and quality time. It is easier to be spontaneous when you are feeling romantic.

3. Page through the book of sexual positions together. Talk to each other about what makes certain positions enticing.
   

4. Get undressed. Begin arousing each other with light touches and kisses. Tell each other dirty stories.

5. Find a sexual position that you have never tried before. Tell your partner how much you would like to have intercourse that way.

6. Throw the book of sexual positions aside and fall on one another with lustful glee. Engage in spontaneous sex.

Tips & Warnings

• Watching a pornographic movie together is also a great way to set the stage for hot spontaneous sex. Try copying some of the positions that you see on the screen.
• Try getting some action in places that you wouldn’t normally consider for sexual relations, such as stairways, restrooms or on the back of a parked car.
• Having sex in public places, although very exciting, carries the risk of discovery and embarrassment.

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[mmmmna]

on 9/3/2007 Just 'going for it' doesn't work if either partner has a few (or a lot) of problems with certain sex acts, and then the freak out on you.

[seamore]

on 5/14/2007 This is a horrible idea. Instead just go for it.