How to Choose a priest to officiate your wedding

A priest brings his or her own personality to a wedding. It is important that the priest's personality and the personality of you and your intended as a couple align. Follow these steps for choosing a priest to officiate your wedding.

Instructions

1. Determine the type of ceremony you have. The type of ceremony determines the location and the type of officiant you will have.

2. If you are already a member of a church and will be marrying in that church, a priest serving that church will more than likely perform the ceremony.

3. Sometimes churches will allow a priest who does not work at a church to perform a ceremony. However, these instances are very rare. Be sure to check with the church office for regulations on this matter.

4. When considering a priest, you will need to discuss his or her beliefs concerning marriage and each person's role in the marriage. These beliefs should align with yours.

5. Choose a priest both you and your intended are comfortable with. If you are not comfortable with the officiant, awkward situations could arise.

6. If you come from different faith backgrounds, it is acceptable to have two officiants representing two different faiths at a wedding. Again, be sure to check on church or other location policy and communicate your wishes to the priest at the very beginning of the meeting.