"Me time" do things for yourself that you would'nt normally do!(Something Special)
Step2
Go shopping, or if you're tight on cash go window shopping! Go in stores that have expensive things that you like write down the price and save for it. Trust me it works you will be so excited on trying to raise the money for it that you wouldn't have time or the energy to think about him!
Step3
Get a massage, splurge a little you are worth every penny !
Step4
Take a long ride out of your neighborhood check out new hang out spots and stores make new friends. Finding new friends out of your usual surroundings will give you an opportunity to find another dude. And you won't have to worry about people from your side of town asking "are you okay", or "I heard about your breakup" being reminded about it only makes matters worst!
Tips & Warnings
If he calls ignore him. Don't give in. This is a sign of weakness, this will make him think he has the upper hand.
Park your car in the garage or behind your home. This will have him guessing where you are, or who you are with.(Trust me, he will ride by your home and see if you're there !)
Always look your best, you never know when you might bump into him. Wear his favorite scent, this will remind him of you and how much he loved the way you smelled !
Never call or stalk him or leave notes on his car.
Don't ask his friend about him or question if he's seeing someone else, trust me if you don't ask about him he's friends will tell him that you did'nt inquire about him. this will make him even more confused.
Keep your cool if you see him, don't bring up the past keep your conversation to a minimum never show him that you are still interested.
on 11/17/2008
I am currently in that situation where my boyfriend broke up with me. I have travelled...went to the spa...I am still depressed about it. I was with this guy for a long time more than three years...and feel head over heels in love. Now that it's over it is proving to be almost impossible to move on. I don't know how to forget about him and just be happy again.
on 11/17/2008
I'm finding it incredibly hard to get over my ex-boyfriend. We were together for more than three years and I really grew to love him. He ended the relationship because he's focusing on his career and I guess he was afraid of commitment. He says he loves me but just not in love with me anymore. Yet he toys with my emotions by says things he would when we together...I want to get past this difficult time and learn to trust another man sometime in the future...it seems impossible right now.
on 11/6/2008
Therereally is no way to get over someone you truley love. i have fought hard for 3 months to try and get the thoughts of him out of my head and heart. All you can do is hold close the good times and not dweal on the bad. If doing thoses things above makes you forget, then you really weren't in love.
on 4/28/2008
Getting over someone a person loves is not as easy as you thought. Once you are in the situation yourself you will know you are not in the mood doing what you listed above. Besides, it is no shame to let the person know if you love him/her, as it is how you trully feel but not how you pretend to feel. Love is not a battle and no one winns in the end.
on 10/1/2007
You make it sound like you're giving instructions on how to change a tire, not an getting through what, for some people, can be an incredibly complicated emotional period. While some of your tips are good, you forget that people need more support than just what you have listed. Finally, it's called punctuation; you may want to try it someday.
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Sweetinnocence said
on 11/17/2008 I am currently in that situation where my boyfriend broke up with me. I have travelled...went to the spa...I am still depressed about it. I was with this guy for a long time more than three years...and feel head over heels in love. Now that it's over it is proving to be almost impossible to move on. I don't know how to forget about him and just be happy again.
Sweetinnocence said
on 11/17/2008 I'm finding it incredibly hard to get over my ex-boyfriend. We were together for more than three years and I really grew to love him. He ended the relationship because he's focusing on his career and I guess he was afraid of commitment. He says he loves me but just not in love with me anymore. Yet he toys with my emotions by says things he would when we together...I want to get past this difficult time and learn to trust another man sometime in the future...it seems impossible right now.
foxywolf40 said
on 11/6/2008 Therereally is no way to get over someone you truley love. i have fought hard for 3 months to try and get the thoughts of him out of my head and heart. All you can do is hold close the good times and not dweal on the bad. If doing thoses things above makes you forget, then you really weren't in love.
angela1 said
on 4/28/2008 Getting over someone a person loves is not as easy as you thought. Once you are in the situation yourself you will know you are not in the mood doing what you listed above. Besides, it is no shame to let the person know if you love him/her, as it is how you trully feel but not how you pretend to feel. Love is not a battle and no one winns in the end.
jennyb1231 said
on 10/1/2007 You make it sound like you're giving instructions on how to change a tire, not an getting through what, for some people, can be an incredibly complicated emotional period. While some of your tips are good, you forget that people need more support than just what you have listed. Finally, it's called punctuation; you may want to try it someday.